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It is at this time that the narcissistic cracks start opening wider as more fully blown narcissistic tendencies emerge.
If the victim is battered down into submission, then it’s open slather – the narcissist may “make up” non-authentically, “I told you I’m sorry, isn’t THAT enough for you?
Unfortunately many people don’t realise true detachment with no emotional hooks, or energy, amazing true life.
Ultimately this is the best way to: a) stop feeding the narcissist, and allowing yourself to be a target to be hoovered, and b) be free of the obsession about whether or not any contact will occur, and c) not react in any shape or form if hoovering does happen.
It is very usual in the relationship with a narcissist to expect, fear and dread hoovering, and then, at times, feel like you won’t survive if you don’t receive it.
Such is the when you are stuck in the throes of narcissistic abuse.
If this is not the case, it is because the narcissist still wants something from you – possessions, money, status, contacts or sex because other sources are momentarily low.
Often, this separation occurs after a time of silence between you and the narcissist.You see, abusers who are narcissist don’t learn by their mistakes.They are not genuinely remorseful, and therefore not accountable or capable of real change.With comments such as “She is so wonderful, and it means so much to me to have your blessing with her.” What is this all about?Clearly mature, decent adults And why do narcissists after months or years – even if you don’t respond in any shape or form – still “throw a line” to “test the waters” to see if you’ll “take the bait?