Friend dating my ex etiquette
You’ve been on a few dates with a guy and everything’s going great.After the third date — an afternoon major league baseball game — you post a picture of the two of you cheersing a beer after a home run. Jessica Says: NEVER – It’s Called Girl Code I would never date one of my friend’s exes, and I hope that they know better than to never date mine. ) Some things are just common courtesy and a gesture of respect. Read what the editors of think, and then tell us your opinion.One warning though: Sometimes people can’t anticipate their emotions. Even if your friend thinks she’ll be fine with the date recycle, once the plan is in action, she might react in a bigger way than she thought she would. So, if after date two, you sense your bud isn’t cool with the situation, even though she said she would be, you’ve got to talk to her and figure out what makes the most sense for your friendship.
People think it’s always the friend who will wig out if you date her ex, but sometimes it’s the ex himself! Maybe If you talk to your friend and she’s really ok with you double dipping in her dating pool, then I say it’s fine. Okay, so imagine your BFF just got out of a relationship with a super hot, great guy. No matter who dumped who, it’s a sensitive situation… If you’re willing to date your friend’s ex, then you’re probably not really friend’s with this “friend” of yours. No matter how much you like your friend’s Ex, you can always find someone else you like just as much – after all they broke up for a reason.It’s been a few months, and suddenly he’s flirting with… You’ve always had a little crush on him, ever since before they started dating, and now it looks like your chance to actually date him. and your friend is definitely going to be uncomfortable (if not furious) about seeing you with her ex. Trust me, dating the guy your best friend just dated is going to ruin your friendship, or at least put a serious strain on it. Emerald Says: There Are Plenty Of Other Guys Out There Why on Earth would you date your friend’s ex? Not only is it unethical (certainly not the same as, like, eating cute kitties for breakfast, but definitely on the list of unethical things), it’s also kind of icky. Melanie Says: No, But Because Of Him, Not Her A few years ago, a good friend of mine actually set me up with a guy friend of hers who she used to date.You should go out of your way to: Nothing is worse than a fair-weather friend, or someone who is by your side when things are good but bails when the going gets tough.Even when you don't agree with the things your friend is doing, you can still care about them.