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He walks you down the aisle, leads you in that first dance, gives you away to the man who will love you in his place. For many years we were acquaintances, then friends, then lovers. Why invite everyone I knew to come stare at the hole in my life?
Early in our relationship we went to a friend's wedding, where the bride's father described how much he loved his daughter, how precious their relationship was. Later that night Jon and I sat in Central Park, and for the first time I let him see the depth of my grief.
Whenever a shift occurs in her life, even if it's something small—a restaurant goes out of business, a teacup shatters—my mother always says the same thing: "There is no refuge from change in the cosmos." Some changes are lightning fast.
Others take a long time to fully reveal themselves.
Looking at the beautiful and good man I married, and looking up at the legacy of the beautiful and good man I lost, I was happy in a way I hadn't believed possible.
There is no refuge from change in the cosmos, or from the heartbreak those changes can bring.
And across the light-years, Sagan dreamed, random molecular jigglings had perhaps spawned creeping, crawling, thinking creatures on alien landscapes bathed in the glow of alien suns.
This vision blinded Sagan, sometimes, to the needs of the people around him.
Johnson Museum of Art, a modernist structure on the Cornell campus. On the ceiling of a massive open-air room that juts out from the museum, the artist Leo Villareal had used a framework of thousands of lights to create a constantly morphing, whooshing depiction of deep space.When a star dies, the darkness left by its absence ripples through the universe at the speed of light, which may seem impossibly fast—but over the great distances of space, even that isn't fast enough. "Your father will be watching over you on your special day," she said.The dead stars appear to shine, but in reality they're long gone. The sentiment was kind, but I don't believe in an afterlife.Read by Kivlighan de Montebello and a full cast, including Brittany Pressley (as Terra), Graham Halstead (as Steve), Michael Crouch (as Ronnie), and Jason Culp (as Zed).Additional narration provided by Therese Plummer, Susan Bennett, Dan Bittner, Pete Larkin, and Courtney Shaw.