Crazy online dating profiles
She said she was even offered a reality TV show, but settled for a book deal, and we're so lucky she did: Popular is a hilarious collection of her craziest online dating anecdotes and time-tested wisdom. Despite her "popularity," Urasek feels just like any other online dater, and has had more than her fair share of awful experiences. Talking about an ex on a first date (or, you know, ever) is possibly the most obvious red flag ever.
Per her book, we're offered a glimpse into the darker side of online dating, and, for those of us who've been in her shoes, it's refreshingly relatable to know that other women deal with the same B. Here are seven red flags that she's come to associate with negative results (and I've thrown in some of my own, too). As Urasek says, "Nobody wants to hear intimate details about a guy's sordid romantic past," and mentioning an ex on your profile or talking about her (or, worse, them) on a date basically screams "I'm not over it!
The sheer volume of potential mates helps turn the tables even further.
Because of the anonymity we're afforded online, tons of guys (and girls!
And the process of ferreting out the weirdos was oddly cathartic.
Offline, women are socialized to Be Nice (or at least to be polite and respond to advances).
Most days, I would scroll through them for a minute or two, then get quickly overwhelmed and click “close tab.” For every 20 or 30 messages I received, I responded to maybe one.
I soon found that online dating did not force me to be nice—actually, it required me to be mean.